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31 mars

When I say..."I am a Christian"

When I say..."I am a Christian"
I'm not shouting "I am saved"
I'm whispering "I get lost!"
"That is why I chose this way."

When I say..."I am a Christian"
I don't speak of this with pride.
I'm confessing that I stumble
and need someone to be my guide.

When I say..."I am a Christian"
I'm not trying to be strong.
I'm professing that I'm weak
and pray for strength to carryon.

When I say..."I am a Christian"
I'm not bragging of success.
I'm admitting I have failed
and cannot ever pay the debt.

When I say..."I am a Christian"
I'm not claiming to be perfect,
my flaws are too visible
but God believes I'm worth it.

When I say..."I am a Christian"
I still feel the sting of pain
I have my share of heartaches
which is why I seek His name.

When I say..."I am a Christian"
I do not wish to judge.
I have no authority.
I only know I'm loved.

by Carol Wimmer
30 mars

Where Is The Love - Black Eyed Peas

昨晚音乐频道的<西游记> 介绍了Black Eyed Peas, 突然想起自己的头像一直是<Where is the love>的logo, 于是把这首mv放到这里. 那句"Father, Father, Father help us, Send some guidance from above. 'Cause people got me, got me questionin', Where is the love"在我听来特有感觉~  能在上海的大街小巷贴满这个logo就好了, 呵呵


 
What's wrong with the world, mama
People livin' like they ain't got no mamas
I think the whole world addicted to the drama
Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma
Overseas, yeah, we try to stop terrorism
But we still got terrorists here livin'
In the USA, the big CIA
The Bloods and The Crips and the KKK
But if you only have love for your own race
Then you only leave space to discriminate
And to discriminate only generates hate
And when you hate then you're bound to get irate, yeah
Madness is what you demonstrate
And that's exactly how anger works and operates
Man, you gotta have love just to set it straight
Take control of your mind and meditate
Let your soul gravitate to the love, y'all, y'all

People killin', people dyin'
Children hurt and hear them cryin'
Can you practice what you preach
Would you turn the other cheek

Father, Father, Father help us
Send some guidance from above
'Cause people got me, got me questionin'
Where is the love (Love)

Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love
The love, the love

It just ain't the same, always unchanged
New days are strange, is the world insane
If love and peace is so strong
Why are there pieces of love that don't belong
Nations droppin' bombs
Chemical gasses fillin' lungs of little ones
With ongoin' sufferin' as the youth die young
So ask yourself is the lovin' really gone
So I could ask myself really what is goin' wrong
In this world that we livin' in people keep on givin'
in
Makin' wrong decisions, only visions of them dividends
Not respectin' each other, deny thy brother
A war is goin' on but the reason's undercover
The truth is kept secret, it's swept under the rug
If you never know truth then you never know love
Where's the love, y'all, come on (I don't know)
Where's the truth, y'all, come on (I don't know)
Where's the love, y'all

People killin', people dyin'
Children hurt and hear them cryin'
Can you practice what you preach
Would you turn the other cheek

Father, Father, Father help us
Send some guidance from above
'Cause people got me, got me questionin'
Where is the love (Love)

Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love (The love)
Where is the love
The love, the love

I feel the weight of the world on my shoulder
As I'm gettin' older, y'all, people gets colder
Most of us only care about money makin'
Selfishness got us followin' the wrong direction
Wrong information always shown by the media
Negative images is the main criteria
Infecting the young minds faster than bacteria
Kids wanna act like what they see in the cinema
Yo', whatever happened to the values of humanity
Whatever happened to the fairness in equality
Instead in spreading love we spreading animosity
Lack of understanding, leading lives away from unity
That's the reason why sometimes I'm feelin' under
That's the reason why sometimes I'm feelin' down
There's no wonder why sometimes I'm feelin' under
Gotta keep my faith alive til love is found
Now ask yourself

Where is the love
Where is the love
Where is the love
Where is the love

Father, Father, Father help us
Send some guidance from above
'Cause people got me, got me questionin'
Where is the love (Love)

Sing with me y'all
(One World, One world)

We only got( one world,one world)
that's all we got( one world,one world)
and somthins wrong with it(yeah)and somthins wrong with it(yeah)
and somthins wrong with the wuh wuh world uhh
We only got( one world,one world)
that's all we got( one world,one world)
26 mars

梦醒了

当我哭泣的时候, 上帝也会陪我一起流泪吗?
15 mars

交通卡掉了

卡里面的钱到还好, 但是我很喜欢那张旧旧的有猴子图案的卡片啊, 很习惯它在我口袋里的存在了~~555
我果然还是个念旧的人
11 mars

APDE, 下一步的工作目标

好吧, 终于老板看不下去了我这样继续忙到死却没有忙到点子上的行为了: 周五和headhunters开完会之后, Sharon和我坐下来聊了聊, 指出了4点我可以改进的地方, 即为APDE:

Analysis:
有时候事情很多, 像一团乱麻的时候, 不能光闷头去作, 而是要分析出个一二三来. 把所有的item写下来(比如搞个todo list)是个很好的方法, 也可以有效的缓解压力和焦虑情绪.

Prioritize:
作为某一项事务(在我这里就是hiring)的负责人, 工作重点中的重点, 是确保当前process的正常运作情况和实时监控. 在bandwidth有限的情况下, 要抓"高重要度"的task(参考4象限图). 最重要的是, 学会say "No".

Delegation:
对于不太重要的事务, 要说服自己学会舍得(更重要的是敢于)delegate出去给别人作. 不要担心别人作的没你好. 不过不能delegate出去之后就不管了(俗称 fire-and-forget), 而是要定期review, 有错误就去纠正, 这对于其他teammember也是个锻炼和提高的机会.

Escalation:
对于自己无法掌控的resource出现了问题, 记得及时上报给老板. 这次我犯的一个错误就是手上的resource减少我却没有去让上层知道, 自己试着顶下来, 结果效果还是不行.

现在再认真看看, 如果4点里面能做好3点, 我就很满足啦. 同时也很感激前辈能这样指导我, 哈哈
6 mars

Sitting On The Moon

...一些人成为了历史...心的一部分也被我们随之留在了上一站...痛入心扉的举动啊...节拍很接近上一张专辑Voyageur中"In The Shadow In The Light". Michael 绝望的唱着:"Where are you?, where are you? I am Sitting on the Moon" 非常情绪化非常特别的旋律, 带起心底沉积的往事...这不是用来听, 而是应用内心去感受的曲子...没有词藻可以描绘其中的感受...

"Sitting On The Moon"
(Michael Cretu)
from Enigma "A POSTERIORI"

I'm sitting on the moon
Watching planet blue, hello
Looking all around
Rotating without sound, where are you?
Where are you? I'm sitting on the moon
Where are you? I am missing you

我坐在月亮上
注视着蔚蓝的行星, 你好
环顾四周
无声的自转, 你在哪里?
你在哪里? 我坐在月亮上
你在哪里? 我在想你

I came from very far
A little unknown star, hello
I don't know what to do
It's so cold and blue, without you
Where are you? I'm sitting on the moon
Where are you? I am missing you

我来自远方
小小的未知星球, 你好
我不知道该做甚么
多么寒冷与沮丧, 因为没有你
你在哪里? 我坐在月亮上
你在哪里? 我在想你
5 mars

感恩的生日

上周六是偶的生日(26了,老了老了), 从生日凌晨开始就收到好多朋友发来的祝福,很感动,谢谢你们~~!

晚上吃到大餐, 还有个好吃的蛋糕做甜点(昨天下午和另一帮朋友又分享了一个,被生日蛋糕撑到了!!), 还去了久闻大名的bonbon(和lily和yue他们), 这个生日还真的是很充实丫, 哈哈

说起来觉得有点惭愧, 自己虽然是基督徒, 但是自己总是得到来自父母, 亲人和朋友们的爱, 付出的爱却很少, 所以在新的一年里, 希望能认识更多人, 帮助更多人, 爱更多的人. Pls help me, Lord~

ps: 今年终于认识了一个和我同一天生日的人啦, hoho

历史上的今天: 25岁生日的晚上ByeBye 24...

最后再转一个: How to Love Unconditionally (如何去 无条件的爱)

By George Wood

Giving unconditional love requires you to love without any expectations. It seems difficult to only love and not demand anything in return in today’s world where everyone is selfish and egotistic. But even in this world we see many examples of unconditional love, for example the love a mother gives to her child, the love between two life partners and the love bestowed upon siblings. To love unconditionally you will have to learn to sacrifice your self, your desires, and most importantly your ego. Let’s find out how to love unconditionally and give happiness to a person without demanding anything in return.

First of all you have to remember that you are not supposed to expect anything from the person you love. It’s true that love makes its way itself. When you love somebody with so much passion and ardor, it’s sure to come round in one way or another. But if somehow you don’t get as much as you give, don’t complain or argue. Always keep in mind that loving others and giving them everything you have will make you satisfied and happy with yourself.

You need to develop a strong will power to be able to love unconditionally. At some point in our lives we all demand some kind of love and want to express our own love for someone. Believe in the principle of giving more and demanding less. When someone asks you for a favor always be ready to give it. Never complain that you don’t have enough or you have other tasks to do. Set your priorities in such a way that everyone else comes first and your own demands come last.

When you love somebody unconditionally you want the best for that person. Think positively about them even if they make mistakes or do not return your feelings. Give them sincere advice about their future and other decisions. Always look around for the betterment of your loved ones without any envy on your part. If you have to sacrifice something of your own for them, don’t hesitate to do so. Only then you will truly be able to love unconditionally.

Remember that unconditional love is given without any expectations or limitations. You don’t define any scope of your love or that how long will you love a person. This is an eternal feeling which should be kept alive in all circumstances and all situations. Never lose hope and keep on loving people who are dear and close to you, only then you will be able to live a completely satisfied and emotionally balanced life.